How Adorée works

Not a dating app.
A private door.

Adorée is designed around one principle: quality over volume. Every step is built to protect your time, your dignity, and your chance of meeting someone truly right for you.

Privacy first

Women's profiles are never browsable. No catalogue. No strangers scrolling your photos. You exist on Adorée on your terms only.

Curation, not algorithm

AI identifies compatibility signals — but every match is reviewed. You receive a curated selection each month, not 300 random profiles.

Men who paid to be serious

Every man on Adorée has subscribed. A financial commitment is a first filter. No curious visitors, no ghosting tourists.

Two journeys, one purpose.

For women

She is always
in control.

1
Create your profile — free, always
A 10-minute questionnaire. Your life vision, what matters to you, what you're looking for. No photos required to start.
2
Arnaud reviews every profile personally
There's no automated approval. Each woman's profile is read and considered before joining. You receive a response within 48 hours.
3
Receive curated proposals
When compatibility is found, you receive a proposal — selected by AI and reviewed by the team. Each comes with a full compatibility report across 8 dimensions.
4
Accept or decline — always your choice
Review his profile, his letter, his compatibility score. Respond in your own time, with no pressure. Your decision is final.
5
Connect privately
Once you accept, contact details are shared between you both. The conversation begins on your terms.
For men

He earns
that privilege.

1
Apply to join
A detailed questionnaire: your life, values, what you're truly looking for. This is not a signup form — it's an application.
2
Profile reviewed and approved
Every male profile is manually reviewed. Incomplete, insincere, or misaligned profiles are not accepted. Quality is protected at the door.
3
Choose your membership
From €29/month. Your tier sets the maximum proposals you receive per month — up to 10 (Essential), 25 (Premium), or all compatible profiles (Elite). Actual volume depends on the F/H ratio and acceptance rates.
4
Receive AI-curated matches
A full compatibility report across 8 dimensions: geography, values, life vision, family, stability, attachment, love language, openness.
5
Send a connection request
Write a personal letter (Premium+). She receives your profile, your score, your letter — and decides. There is no other way.
The Adorée matching engine

8 dimensions.
One truthful picture.

Adorée's AI analyses compatibility across eight distinct dimensions, not just age and location. Every score is transparent and explained.

Geography
Mobility, distance, willingness to relocate
Values
What matters most, non-negotiables, worldview
Life vision
Where you see yourself in 5 years
Family
Children, custody, future family plans
Stability
Professional and emotional grounding
Attachment
How you love, how you need to be loved
Love language
Words, acts, touch, time, gifts
Openness
Adaptability, growth, curiosity

AI-assisted. Human-reviewed.

The algorithm surfaces compatibility signals from your answers. But every match is reviewed by a human before it reaches you. Adorée is not a slot machine. It is a considered introduction.

≤25
proposals/month (plan maximum)
Your privacy, protected

What we will never do.

Display your profile publicly
Allow men to browse women like a catalogue
Share your contact details without your consent
Sell your data to third parties
Push notifications to pressure your decisions
Allow anonymous, unvetted men to contact you