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Meeting a Ukrainian woman who lives in the UK — seriously, and safely

Most pages promising to help you “meet Ukrainian women” sell access to women who live in Ukraine, by the letter or by the minute. The women this page is about live here. They came on the Ukraine schemes from 2022, they work, many are raising children in British schools, and they are not waiting for a ticket. Here is what is known about them, how to meet one without being taken for a ride, and where Adorée fits.

Updated 2026-10-04

Ukrainians in the UK, in figures

Ukrainians in the United Kingdom, 2026
IndicatorFigureSource
Ukraine scheme visas granted, March 2022 – June 2026290,044Home Office, year ending June 2026
Extensions granted under the Ukraine Permission Extension, Feb. 2025 – June 2026159,341Home Office
Length of a Ukraine Permission Extension18 more monthsGOV.UK
Adorée Study respondents living in the UK9% — fourth country of the sampleAdorée Study 2026
Respondents not in a relationship52% — of whom 1 in 4 actively lookingAdorée Study 2026
Respondents not using any dating app87%Adorée Study 2026
The Adorée Study is a self-selected sample of 215 women from the EU4UA community in 18 countries, not a census. Full tables and methodology: clubadoree.com/study.

What is different about meeting her in the UK

  • She is here on her own terms. Her visa and its extension give her the right to live and work in the UK; she does not need a relationship to stay, and an approach that suggests otherwise ends the conversation.
  • English is often already the shared language. It is the language of her job and of her children’s school, and about half of Ukrainians displaced in Europe speak it. Where it is still tiring, patience matters more than fluency.
  • Many arrived through Homes for Ukraine and spent months in a stranger’s home. Gratitude and independence matter to her in equal measure; she has had enough of being someone’s project.
  • She is probably a mother. More than half of the women in the study have a child in their care. A relationship with her includes a household that already exists.
  • She has seen the “Ukrainian brides” adverts. Seriousness is not something you claim in a first message; it is what you show over the first weeks.

Where to meet her without being scammed

  • General dating apps: possible, but 87% of the women in the study are not on them, and those who left cite fake profiles and men who were not looking for anything serious.
  • Sites that charge per letter or per minute of chat: they mostly present women living in Ukraine, and the billing rewards conversations that never end. Read the signs in our romance-scams guide before buying “credits”.
  • Community life: Ukrainian churches, Saturday schools and cultural centres in London, Manchester, Edinburgh and elsewhere are places of belonging, not hunting grounds. Go if you have a reason to be there.
  • A private introduction service: both people are checked, the introduction is mutual, and nobody pays per message. Ask who runs it, how members are checked and how you pay before you join any.

What she is looking for

Asked what matters most in a partner, the women in the study ranked stability and security first (68%), then respect and gentleness (54%), then commitment and seriousness (48%). Nothing about appearance, income or lifestyle made the top three.

Three in five would consider moving within Europe for love; the others have rebuilt their lives once and want to stay where they are. Both answers deserve respect, and a serious introduction asks the question before anything else.

Questions men ask

Are there Ukrainian women in the UK looking for a serious relationship?
Yes, though not in the way the adverts suggest. In the Adorée Study 2026, 52% of respondents were not in a relationship and a quarter of those were actively looking. What they ranked first in a partner was stability, then respect, then commitment.
Do Ukrainian women in the UK want to stay?
Many do. The Ukraine Permission Extension gives them a further 18 months, and many have jobs and children in school here. Some would move for love, within the UK or elsewhere in Europe, but that is their decision, not a premise.
Is it safe to meet a Ukrainian woman online?
It is as safe as the place you meet her. The warning signs are the same everywhere: any request for money, no video call after several weeks, a push to move to WhatsApp or Telegram straight away, photos that appear elsewhere online.
Do I need to speak Ukrainian?
No. English is the bridge for many. A few words of Ukrainian — not Russian — are noticed and appreciated as a sign of respect.
How much does it cost?
Dating apps are free or a few pounds a month; sites that charge per message can cost hundreds a month; private matchmaking ranges from a monthly membership to several thousand pounds. Our cost guide compares the models.
WHO IS WRITING THIS

Adorée: a private introduction service, born from EU4UA

Adorée introduces Ukrainian women settled in Europe to serious European men. It grew out of EU4UA, the platform founded in 2022 by Arnaud Devigne that helped 40,000 Ukrainian women and children find shelter in Europe. Women never pay. Men apply, are read by a person before being accepted, and pay a monthly membership — Premium €49, Elite €99, no lock-in — to open conversations.

Introductions come one at a time, profiles are never public, and conversations stay on Adorée until you meet, with built-in translation. A member who does not want to move is only introduced to people who live in the same country or are ready to move. Many of the women in our club live in the United Kingdom.

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