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Meeting a Ukrainian woman who lives in Poland — seriously, and safely

Most pages promising to help you “meet Ukrainian women” sell access to women who live in Ukraine, by the letter or by the minute. The women this page is about live in Poland. They arrived after 2022, they work, many are raising children, and they are not waiting for a ticket. Here is what is known about them, how to meet one without being taken for a ride, and where Adorée fits.

Updated 2026-11-09

Ukrainians in Poland, in figures

Ukrainians in Poland, 2026
IndicatorFigureSource
Ukrainians under temporary protection in Poland, 31 July 2026953,060 — 21.5% of all beneficiaries in the EUEurostat, as reported by Brussels Times
Ukrainians under temporary protection in the EU, 31 July 20264.43 million; adult women 43.4%Eurostat, as reported by Brussels Times
Respondents of the Adorée Study not in a relationship52% — of whom 1 in 4 actively lookingAdorée Study 2026
Respondents not using any dating app87%Adorée Study 2026
The EU share of adult women is an EU average; a Polish figure is not given in the source. The Adorée Study is a self-selected sample of 215 women from the EU4UA community in 18 countries, not a census. Full tables and methodology: clubadoree.com/study.

What is different about meeting her in Poland

  • Temporary protection gives her the right to live and work in Poland; she does not need a relationship to stay, and an approach that suggests otherwise ends the conversation.
  • She is probably a mother. More than half of the women in the study have a child in their care. A relationship with her includes a household that already exists.
  • Language tires, it does not separate. Living in a second or third language all day is exhausting; patience matters more than fluency.
  • She has seen the “Ukrainian brides” adverts. Seriousness is not something you claim in a first message; it is what you show over the first weeks.

Where to meet her without being scammed

  • General dating apps: possible, but 87% of the women in the study are not on them, and those who left cite fake profiles and men who were not looking for anything serious.
  • Sites that charge per letter or per minute of chat: they mostly present women living in Ukraine, and the billing rewards conversations that never end. Read the signs in our romance-scams guide before buying “credits”.
  • Community life: Ukrainian parishes, Saturday schools and cultural associations in Warsaw, Kraków, Wrocław and Gdańsk are places of belonging, not hunting grounds. Go if you have a reason to be there.
  • A private introduction club: both people are checked, the introduction is mutual, and nobody pays per message. Ask who runs it, how members are checked and how you pay before you join any.

What she is looking for

Asked what matters most in a partner, the women in the study ranked stability and security first (68%), then respect and gentleness (54%), then commitment and seriousness (48%). Nothing about appearance, income or lifestyle made the top three.

63% would consider moving within Europe for love; the others have rebuilt their lives once and want to stay where they are. Both answers deserve respect, and a serious introduction asks the question before anything else.

Questions men ask

How many Ukrainians live in Poland?
At the end of July 2026, 953,060 people from Ukraine were under temporary protection in Poland, 21.5% of all beneficiaries in the EU, according to Eurostat. Across the EU, adult women made up 43.4% of beneficiaries.
Are there Ukrainian women in Poland looking for a serious relationship?
Yes, though not in the way the adverts suggest. In the Adorée Study 2026, 52% of respondents were not in a relationship and a quarter of those were actively looking. What they ranked first in a partner was stability, then respect, then commitment.
Is it safe to meet a Ukrainian woman online?
It is as safe as the place you meet her. The warning signs are the same everywhere: any request for money, no video call after several weeks, a push to move to WhatsApp or Telegram straight away, photos that appear elsewhere online.
Do I need to speak Ukrainian?
No. English is the bridge for many. A few words of Ukrainian — not Russian — are noticed and appreciated as a sign of respect.
WHO IS WRITING THIS

Adorée: a private introduction club, born from EU4UA

Adorée introduces Ukrainian women settled in Europe to serious European men. It grew out of EU4UA, the platform founded in 2022 by Arnaud Devigne that helped 40,000 Ukrainian women and children find shelter in Europe. Women never pay. Men apply, are read by a person before being accepted, and pay a monthly membership after a 7-day free trial, never per message. The approach is digital; the moderation is human and strict.

Introductions come one at a time, profiles are never public, and conversations stay on Adorée until you meet, with built-in translation. A member who does not want to move is only introduced to people who live in the same country or are ready to move.

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Your membership keeps EU4UA running

Adorée memberships fund the costs of EU4UA, the non-profit that has supported 40,000 Ukrainian women and children across Europe since 2022, including its technical costs: platform hosting, database, email delivery. By becoming a member, you help it keep supporting the families who still rely on it.

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