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How Adorée vets men — and what the vetting does not do

Before you sign up, you have the right to know who will be on the other side. Here is what happens to every man before he is introduced to you, what happens during a conversation — and, just as honestly, what we do not do.

Updated 2026-10-13

Before a man is accepted

  • He fills in a detailed profile: country and city, work, family situation, children, whether he wants children, the life he is looking for.
  • A person on the Adorée team reads every profile before a man is accepted. Not every application is.
  • His profile is not public: only the women he is introduced to see it. The same goes for yours.

How introductions work

  • One introduction at a time, not a catalogue to scroll. Compatibility is assessed across eight dimensions and reviewed by a person.
  • You decide whether to reply. No conversation opens without your agreement.
  • You write in Ukrainian, he reads in his language — and the other way round. Translation is built into the messages.
  • You can end a conversation at any moment, without explanation.

During a conversation

  • A message containing a phone number, an email address, a link or an invitation to move to another messenger is not delivered straight away: a person reviews it first. The point is that nobody can push you towards a place where we can no longer help.
  • Once a conversation has genuinely let you get to know each other, we look at such messages case by case.
  • If an account is closed on suspicion of fraud, every woman he was writing to is warned.

What the vetting does not do

We do not check passports and we do not run criminal-record checks. Our vetting is a person reading the profile and the moderation of conversations — not a guarantee.

So the simple safety rules apply here too: a video call before you meet, a first date in a public place, and no money — neither to him nor “on behalf of” Adorée.

How to report a man

If anything in a man’s behaviour worries you — a request for money, pressure, insults — use the Report button in the conversation, or send the report to arnaud@clubadoree.com.

Questions women ask

Who actually reads the profiles?
A person on the Adorée team, not only an algorithm. The founder, Arnaud Devigne, is known by name and his address is public.
Can men see my profile whenever they want?
No. Your profile appears in no search and no catalogue. Only the men you are introduced to see it.
Can I turn down an introduction?
Yes, at any time and without explanation. The man is not told why.
Do you really vet every man?
Yes: no man receives introductions until a person has read his profile. But, as said above, that is a reading, not a check of documents.
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Adorée: a private matchmaking club created by the EU4UA team

Adorée introduces Ukrainian women living in Europe to serious European men. It grew out of EU4UA, the platform Arnaud Devigne created in 2022 to find housing for 40,000 Ukrainian women and children. It is free for women at every step.

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